Since I am crew I can tell you that this is the same thing we ask to the server company. Sadly for us we do not have the game on a PC in a room so it is a little bit more complicated. Today we made some changes so we hope that day 108 when the new boat comes it will be better.... At least I hope because it is very frustrating !!!
This is not fun for us either it is very frustrating to depend on a third party ! I really hope we can fix this as soon as possible.