The reporting is usually a one way road. We don't have to notify you if the flag is right or wrong, if the user has been moved to another country or not, you can verify that yourself if you truly wish. If your post has been deleted, it can mean that one of us already verified it, changed the flag or considered it correct and then deleted the post because he considered the report closed.
It might have been a mistake, that's also possible, but it would childish to assume that it's a conspiracy underway to "shut your mouth" by deleting everything you write.
"Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely." - The Lord Acton